How To Make A Narcissist Feel Worthless
It can feel very vindicating when we make a narcissist feel worthless. I mean, after all the time they spent devaluing us for their pleasure, making them feel like they want us to feel, worthless, can be sweet.
Narcissists, despite their tough bravado, actually are, most of them, paper tigers. They are not as strong as they many of us have been misled to believe.
This is one reason why they work so hard to make other people seem like they are weak, and why they work so hard to make people think they are worthless.
They know that they are worthless, and they try and project their worthlessness onto us.
But once you understand how they think and why they go out their way to make us feel like we are nothing by devaluing us and discarding us, when they do discard us, we can then pull the trump card to make them feel worthless.
This is the one thing you can do when they try and devalue you and make you feel like you are nothing that will show them and reveal to them THEY ARE NOTHING.
How To Make A Narcissist Feel Worthless
The one thing you can do (well, there are many things you can do to hurt a narcissist and make a narcissist feel worthless, but in this case, for someone who a narcissist has discarded) is to accept their discard and agree with the narcissist on whatever lunacy they spew.
You must understand about narcissistic people because they think they are the smartest people on this planet.
Despite these people never curing cancer, getting us back to the moon, unlocking the secrets of the universe, in their kidults minds, they are the smartest people on this planet.
So when they try and make us feel worthless or discard us, what they are saying in their deluded heads is, “I have the power to make you feel less than.”
Accepting whatever put down or nasty comments they say and accepting the discard, you take away their power.And power to a narcissist is not uplifting themselves; it is in tearing everyone else around them down. Click To Tweet
By saying to a narcissist that “how you view me is an interesting perception of me that I do not wholly see in myself as, but I accept that is how you see me,” this will cause them to feel worthless.
Because they are expecting you/us to try and prove them wrong.
They try and control people by their opinion, and if you do not care what they think of you, they cannot control you. To people who need to control others and can’t, and when I say NEED (They really do NEED to control others), this is crushing to them.
When a narcissist tries and discards you, the best thing to do is to accept the discard.
The discard is meant to make us chase them.
If we chase them, it shows that they are worthy of attention, but not chasing them and accepting the discard, we show them they really do not matter in our lives and are worthless.
This is one reason why, after they discard us, they go on such nasty smear campaigns. They are upset that we are not chasing after them and showing that they matter to us.
The smear campaigns are their way of saying, “Hey, I am talking badly about you; come say something about it. Give me attention.”
As I mentioned earlier, these people are kidults. And this is not a knock or me teasing them.
Just as a small child draws on the walls to get mommy and daddy’s attention, so too will these kidult narcissists do nasty things just to get our attention.
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Narcissists need to feel like they matter, they need to feel like they are important, and they need to feel like they are of worth.
But they also need others to NOT feel these things, which again is why they work s hard to devalue us.
If you want to make a narcissist feel worthless, just accept their discard and live your life as if you never even met them; this will make them feel that they are nothing important.
Do not hold a grudge, as that only shows that they got to you.
The best way to hurt these people and make them feel worthless is by living your best life without them in it.